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heatherjune

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What, in your opinion, is the Motive behind slandering someone's reputation?

And, just Why is it, that some people don't recognise what such a person is trying to do, when others can see it straight away?

I welcome your thoughts on this, because if I live to be a hundred, I shall never understand how people are divided on what should be staring them in the face-- Why they should want to give that person the pay off they obsessively and repeatedly crave?


I find it worrying that so many people can see the repeated slanderous posts/comments about me to antagonise and hurt me, and her obvious enjoyment in telling it, and still believe her! Shocking to know there are so many sheep, however, some people had intelligence, I'm relieved to say--it didn't take much.

If they were Judge and Jury, I'd have been Jailed for a 'crime' I didn't commit.

To everyone reading this, this wasn't just someone on the internet that I HADN'T met. A woman invited me to her home in California; I had defended her from being bullied, and thought this was her way of showing her appreciation. It cost me around $900 to fly from the UK.

After well over a week of seeing nothing but supermarkets every day after 3pm, when she finally put down her computer and got dressed, I had a sociable evening at a Bar, with live music and dancing.

The very next day, I was accused of not being honest about who I was--that I had led her to believe that I was 'a quiet woman who sat around all day sending emails and decorating my house', I was accused of being a whore and told to leave.

Prior to that, all they really spoke about was Obama and wanting him killed. I had it in the truck, in their house and had the option of watching Fox News for hours or sitting alone on the patio, waiting for Linda.

I was on holiday--one would never have thought so--thrown out of her house--for absolutely NOTHING! I guess being a Liberal Democrat didn't help, although I tried to humour her and not discuss it--just divert!

It didn't work and she shouted at me that I shouldn't vote,(even though I lived in the UK) and proceeded to mock me by way of her hands and what I said--this took place the night before--so I felt very unnerved the next day when she DROVE ME to the high street to shop, knowing that her plasterer had suggested I had an evening there at the Bar.

Never in a million years did I expect to be thrown out because I had gone out for the evening--ALL the other evenings I spent inside their Trailer, their home, or their children's houses, I never went anywhere!

Since then she has slandered me in every which way possible to defame my character---apparently I'm a mistress to 3 men, my children have thrown me out of their homes, I've been to jail, I'm a bad parent, a whore (I found out that I was a mistress to 3 different men, on Fluther!) I have also been slandered on Answerology--and people just bought all this--well, some had more intelligence..

One more thing I found out quite recently---was, that whilst I was sitting on her patio, stunned and in shock after refusing to bow to her Demand to go back inside, that she ''hadn't finished with me yet'', this woman was on Fluther, thoroughly enjoying people telling her how bad I was, that she should lock up her credit cards, etc. She had told them that I had locked myself in the bedroom! and so they advised her to call the police! But of course, this was to feed her sickness, no truth in any of it.

Oh and she told everyone that I had yelled at her and was abusive---I could barely speak, I was in such shock, plus I was shaking--being thrown out of a foreign country when you had done absolutely nothing to warrant it--I needed 2 hands to steady a drink to my mouth and was actually in shock for days--I was traumatised.


I WILL NOT answer, nor will I acknowledge, ANYONE who asks me questions about this, whose obvious intentions are to provoke and hurt me further with their blatantly transparent insults. Everything any Normal and Decent Human Being should NEED to know, is in my post.

I would dearly love to know who the person was, for giving credit to the person below, for wanting the other person's story. It beggars belief!

2841 day(s) ago

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Electra

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Isn't it hilarious that the "unconcerned" person who has nothing at all to do with the matter you mention felt compelled to hit your question five times, and used the exact same language of the person we both know of that slandered you (e.g. our "unconcerned" one's hint that you "look like a whore" is the spit of someone's continual slander on the other site)? ;)

Some people are so stupid they don't know when they're transparent. ;)

To answer your question: Malicious people are typically really unhappy and jealous of anyone who has what they lack. Happy people don't slander others in the way that someone we both know of has slandered you. :/

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heatherjune
2836 day(s) ago
Yes it is. The hate oozes out, doesn't it. I'm so pleased that I can never be like them.

Electra
2836 day(s) ago
That's all the revenge we'll ever need, you know--there's no way we could ever be like the people we're thinking about unless we gained at least a hundred pounds and lost about 50 IQ points via severe brain damage. And the people we are thinking of know that only too well. So, all they can do is impotently hate us. It's rather sad if you think about it.

heatherjune
2835 day(s) ago
Very, and yes, it is.

heatherjune
2832 day(s) ago
And yet, there's someone who is not content to read this and wants... HER side of the story...?? Most people think this is horrendous enough--and she wants me to trust her?? Well if I wanted someone to trust me, I would TRUST THEM to give an Honest account..

Don't have to say more. People have to prove themselves to me.

heatherjune
2832 day(s) ago
Anyone who wants my trust, has to be trustworthy--that is, to accept what you say, as the truth. If I am not trusted, they cannot expect any trust, simple as that.

heatherjune
2832 day(s) ago
I mean.. this person has trusted the person below who has CLEARLY abused me. Now she expects me to trust her??!

Pustic
2832 day(s) ago
Be nice ladies.

Electra
2831 day(s) ago
It's not a question of washboard being nice--someone who is supposedly a stranger to this whole affair suspiciously asks Heather about "the other side of the story"; this sort of implicitly accusatory question contains wording that the actual villain in this case always uses--she has continually moaned that she has *her* side of the story; we should all believe Heather is a whore because others complimented her appearance, a gentleman was appalled at the rotten slander's treatment of Heather and took her in after she threw Heather out--the slanderer in question posted this herself; it was supposed to make HEATHER look bad because a relative stranger felt sorry for the way Heather was treated.

In short, the other person's side of the story is that other people think she's a rat for the way she treated her guest whom SHE entreated to visit her--to come thousands of miles to visit her. Heather's apparently to blame for the fact that other people think her victimizer's conduct was deplorable, too.

So, Pustic, all due respect--tell the villainous slanderers who are too stupid to manage the incognito thing persuasively to be nice.

 
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