What, in your opinion, is the Motive behind slandering someone's reputation?
And, just Why is it, that some people don't recognise what such a person is trying to do, when others can see it straight away?
I welcome your thoughts on this, because if I live to be a hundred, I shall never understand how people are divided on what should be staring them in the face-- Why they should want to give that person the pay off they obsessively and repeatedly crave?
I find it worrying that so many people can see the repeated slanderous posts/comments about me to antagonise and hurt me, and her obvious enjoyment in telling it, and still believe her! Shocking to know there are so many sheep, however, some people had intelligence, I'm relieved to say--it didn't take much.
If they were Judge and Jury, I'd have been Jailed for a 'crime' I didn't commit.
To everyone reading this, this wasn't just someone on the internet that I HADN'T met. A woman invited me to her home in California; I had defended her from being bullied, and thought this was her way of showing her appreciation. It cost me around $900 to fly from the UK.
After well over a week of seeing nothing but supermarkets every day after 3pm, when she finally put down her computer and got dressed, I had a sociable evening at a Bar, with live music and dancing.
The very next day, I was accused of not being honest about who I was--that I had led her to believe that I was 'a quiet woman who sat around all day sending emails and decorating my house', I was accused of being a whore and told to leave.
Prior to that, all they really spoke about was Obama and wanting him killed. I had it in the truck, in their house and had the option of watching Fox News for hours or sitting alone on the patio, waiting for Linda.
I was on holiday--one would never have thought so--thrown out of her house--for absolutely NOTHING! I guess being a Liberal Democrat didn't help, although I tried to humour her and not discuss it--just divert!
It didn't work and she shouted at me that I shouldn't vote,(even though I lived in the UK) and proceeded to mock me by way of her hands and what I said--this took place the night before--so I felt very unnerved the next day when she DROVE ME to the high street to shop, knowing that her plasterer had suggested I had an evening there at the Bar.
Never in a million years did I expect to be thrown out because I had gone out for the evening--ALL the other evenings I spent inside their Trailer, their home, or their children's houses, I never went anywhere!
Since then she has slandered me in every which way possible to defame my character---apparently I'm a mistress to 3 men, my children have thrown me out of their homes, I've been to jail, I'm a bad parent, a whore (I found out that I was a mistress to 3 different men, on Fluther!) I have also been slandered on Answerology--and people just bought all this--well, some had more intelligence..
One more thing I found out quite recently---was, that whilst I was sitting on her patio, stunned and in shock after refusing to bow to her Demand to go back inside, that she ''hadn't finished with me yet'', this woman was on Fluther, thoroughly enjoying people telling her how bad I was, that she should lock up her credit cards, etc. She had told them that I had locked myself in the bedroom! and so they advised her to call the police! But of course, this was to feed her sickness, no truth in any of it.
Oh and she told everyone that I had yelled at her and was abusive---I could barely speak, I was in such shock, plus I was shaking--being thrown out of a foreign country when you had done absolutely nothing to warrant it--I needed 2 hands to steady a drink to my mouth and was actually in shock for days--I was traumatised.
I WILL NOT answer, nor will I acknowledge, ANYONE who asks me questions about this, whose obvious intentions are to provoke and hurt me further with their blatantly transparent insults. Everything any Normal and Decent Human Being should NEED to know, is in my post.
I would dearly love to know who the person was, for giving credit to the person below, for wanting the other person's story. It beggars belief!
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